Once upon a time, there used to be a thread for helping people with menaces.
I don’t see it anymore, and I have since managed to rack up quite a bit of menaces. As such - to make it easier to get help, I made a spreadsheet:
https://docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1wOpT7oYDeEWXlqHAMpgA6fqegLINvMSwejmQ5qbofX4/edit?usp=sharing
This spreadsheet is based on the gentlemanly principle of reciprocation with a twist - whoever is sent a menace cure/cure request should respond with a similar one, unless the sender has mentioned in the request that they rather want something else. An alternative could for instance be to send both a request for help with scandal and an offer to nurse them back to health.
It’s probably also a good idea to have no more than 2 outstanding requests with the same person at the same time.