I petition the devs to rework the way we respond to being slighted by another player. Because sometimes the player cannot be selected from the list of contacts, and the process of responding gets stuck in limbo.
Maybe make it a randomly triggered event. Or if Player A cannot respond to the slight from Player B, Player A can ‘discover’ that Player C is an accomplice or associate, then transfer the retribution to Player C instead. Player C then can respond to Player A or take revenge on another.