Currently I’m slowly progressing my way through seeking using this guide by I’m a candle here.
So far it seems to have kept me on the right track but I’m intrigued by an option on Winking Isle. It says "surrender St Destin’s Candle for 1 SMEN and some super great text".
Super great text sounds like something I want but I don’t know whether its feasible to grind out another 12 nobility that late into SMEN. I know you get St Destins before you lose all your lodgings but are you still undamaged enough to make grinding another candle feasible?
Losing all lodgings is optional and occurs before getting St Destin’s in any reasonable ordering. It’s entirely possible to get as many Destin’s as you want as the option to lose it is repeatable. It is possible to lock the option to get another one through one method while getting St Erzulie’s, but it can also presumably be obtained through the Torment destiny and possibly through confessions at Hallowmas.