Losing connections and qualities

So I recently died and came back,and since then actions that normal raise my connections with people have lowered them, my connected constables level went from 5 to 1 in the course of a few actions, and now I’ve lost some qualities. Whats going on?

Have you tried emailing support@failbettergames.com ?

Do you remember which options specifically? It’s a bit hard to explain what could be going on without some additional information.